"You shouldn't need love. You should want love."I want love, just like how I desire for Jeffrey Campbell shoes.
Once I get it, I'd yearn for more. And more. And more. Like an addiction, but not a necessity.
To the girls out there who are hurting in silence because of love,
Sometimes loving a person means letting them go. But letting them go takes hell lot of heartaches. I know. I've been there, I've done that.
Happiness is a choice. You could choose to be happy and welcome every lovely morning with a smile, or ruin the skies with streaks of sadness and frustration that you emit. It's the same with love. You could either take the it in your stride, or hang on and carry on hurting in silence.
Break-ups are a component of love.
Letting him go isn't a very shallow behaviour. It just goes out to show that you're willing to be the bigger man with a gentler heart to give. It doesn't mean you're weak. In fact it means that you're able to survive without him. Remember, you were living perfectly fine before he came into your life.
He wouldn't have left if he loved you strong enough.
If he had cheated on you, it just shows that you aren't the only one on his mind when he's with you. I can understand if he wants to break-up for another girl. You can't only love one person in your entire life. You have to experience love more than once, in order to find the "right" person to be with. But what I can't condone is if he returns after being with thousands of other girls. Returning once is the maximum I could take. Because what makes you think he wouldn't return to any of his other girls once he gets bored of you? What makes you think you're "the one"? How can you be sure you're not just a substitute for someone else?
Girls, we shouldn't be desperate for love. I wouldn't want him to love me because I forced him to. *insert OverlyAttatchedGirlfriend.jpg* I want him to love me because it's his wish to do so.
Hanging on and faking smiles everyday drains you mentally, don't you think? Why not try letting go for once and go all out to enjoy life again, this time without him? Show him that you're capable of being truly happy on your own.
Because if he moved on, so should you.
It's a win-win situation for you. If he returns, you could question his motive - he might be returning because his you went ahead and trampled all over his ego. Now the power is in your hands - you choose whether he's sincere enough to be with you, or not. If he doesn't return, good for you! You've proven yourself to be an independent and strong-willed lady.
He's not the only guy in the world. There are many chances for you to fall in love over and over again. No, it isn't whorish or sluttish. If you gave it your best and loved with your heart each time, there's no wrong done. It's not your fault that he doesn't make the cut. That's just God's way of telling you the best is always served last.
We should want love, instead of needing it. Love, although enchanting and mystical, shouldn't affect who we are. He should love you the way you are, and you should love him the way he is. You shouldn't be changing yourself for him. Similarly, he shouldn't be changing himself for you. It works both ways.
Letting him go isn't a very shallow behaviour. It just goes out to show that you're willing to be the bigger man with a gentler heart to give. It doesn't mean you're weak. In fact it means that you're able to survive without him. Remember, you were living perfectly fine before he came into your life.
He wouldn't have left if he loved you strong enough.
If he had cheated on you, it just shows that you aren't the only one on his mind when he's with you. I can understand if he wants to break-up for another girl. You can't only love one person in your entire life. You have to experience love more than once, in order to find the "right" person to be with. But what I can't condone is if he returns after being with thousands of other girls. Returning once is the maximum I could take. Because what makes you think he wouldn't return to any of his other girls once he gets bored of you? What makes you think you're "the one"? How can you be sure you're not just a substitute for someone else?
Girls, we shouldn't be desperate for love. I wouldn't want him to love me because I forced him to. *insert OverlyAttatchedGirlfriend.jpg* I want him to love me because it's his wish to do so.
Hanging on and faking smiles everyday drains you mentally, don't you think? Why not try letting go for once and go all out to enjoy life again, this time without him? Show him that you're capable of being truly happy on your own.
Because if he moved on, so should you.
It's a win-win situation for you. If he returns, you could question his motive - he might be returning because his you went ahead and trampled all over his ego. Now the power is in your hands - you choose whether he's sincere enough to be with you, or not. If he doesn't return, good for you! You've proven yourself to be an independent and strong-willed lady.
He's not the only guy in the world. There are many chances for you to fall in love over and over again. No, it isn't whorish or sluttish. If you gave it your best and loved with your heart each time, there's no wrong done. It's not your fault that he doesn't make the cut. That's just God's way of telling you the best is always served last.
We should want love, instead of needing it. Love, although enchanting and mystical, shouldn't affect who we are. He should love you the way you are, and you should love him the way he is. You shouldn't be changing yourself for him. Similarly, he shouldn't be changing himself for you. It works both ways.
"If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best."
Go all out and love with a big heart. Loving is fun, and it's easy. So can letting go be :)
Go all out and love with a big heart. Loving is fun, and it's easy. So can letting go be :)